Published on January 13th, 2015
Khan at his wedding
Khan and Asiya wanted to get married. They followed all the marriage customs of Tajikistan, the country where they live.
First Khan asked his parents to meet Asiya’s parents. The four parents met, and Khan proposed to Asiya officially. Their parents announced the wedding date and made all the wedding plans.
Then, a few weeks before the wedding, Khan’s Muslim parents realized that Asiya and her family were Christians. “Our son will NEVER marry a Christian!” they said. They were surprised to find out that Khan had a Bible. He, too, was a Christian! He had been baptized a few months earlier.
Khan’s parents said he could no longer be a member of their family unless he did the following.
- Break up with his girlfriend and cancel the wedding.
- Stop being a Christian.
- Read a Muslim prayer in front of everyone, and become a Muslim again.
- Marry a Muslim girl.
In their country, newlyweds live in the groom’s parents’ home until the couple gets a home. Khan said no to his family’s conditions. They kicked him out of their family. So right before he married Asiya, he had no relatives, no money, and no house to live in. At the wedding, the chairs reserved for his parents remained empty.
Asiya’s parents are asking for prayer for Khan. They would like Christians to pray:
- Khan can find a job and a place to live with Asiya.
- God will help him through the shock of losing his family.
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